• Relationships and dating

    The Orgasmic Queen – reflections from the sexiest course

    It’s 2019. And I’m invited to join an online course called The Orgasmic Queen.  Because women’s sexuality is still not fully free. Women’s genitals are hidden. Women’s pleasure is secondary. This is a positive course aiming to emphasise and show that there is so much potential, so much to discover, so much to learn – towards a stage, where women express their desires fully, get to know their bodies, love their bodies, set boundaries. Men also of for that sake, but this course is for ladies. Online? I was a bit sceptical how this intimate topic could be shared in a webinar form, however it turns out to be great.…

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    Just because it’s true, doesn’t mean it’s right

    And you are not staying because you want drama. Or because you don’t know your worth. You are accepting this situation because something tells you have faith, everything happens the way it should. And because you are a good ass person who understands that he is going through a tough time and that pressure doesn’t help your love. And because this man rocks your fucking world. The way he talks, walks, smiles. The fact that he questions your beliefs, listens to your advice, lets you rest in his arms while kissing your forehead. And no words are necessary. Because,  you both know… You know what you have is strong. Because it’s…

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    Sluta tjata – dejta med respekt

    Hans ögon går lite i kors och jag gissar att det är alkoholen. För han luktar inte fresh.  “I like you”, säger han och flinar berusat.  Han står lite för nära när han inleder sin lama övertalningskampanj. Jag (och många andra tjejer säkerligen) har hört den förr. Men hur kommer det sig att han på riktigt tror att det ska funka. Och det här med tjat, inte bara hopplöst osexigt utan också ett jävligt medeltida grepp, eller? Tror han att om han tjatar tillräckligt så kommer jag nog tända på honom, orgasmerna kommer flöda och jag kommer plötsligt tycka att han är en jäkligt skön snubbe? Nej, nej, och åter…

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    Infidelity

    Something cruel and unforgivable or a natural part of being human? Something in between, or perhaps both? Nevertheless it’s a provocative topic. Because it questions and ruins the notion of exclusiveness and the concept of conventional relationships. It’s one of our biggest fears, to be cheated on and not being able to trust our partner. This post is not about justifying it, nor to doom it, it’s about the things around it and how we can deal with it.  So, being exclusive tends to be the norm in relationships but are we really meant for that? People cheat all the time, hurt each other, lie to each other. It’s like we’re…

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    The modern relationship and the thirst for freedom

    Here is the English version! We live in a world where we are constantly online and get loads of impressions, inspiration and social interaction every day. Where we are increasingly interconnected; our networks melt together and give us access to more and more people and new contexts to explore. Where a date is just a swipe away. And so on. Do you agree that the world feels smaller? It is no longer the boy next door we flirt with, but might also be a personal trainer in Barcelona where we are going on holiday, who we found with Tinder Plus. This supply of people (singles) never runs short and the grass…

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    Tvåsamhetens vara eller icke vara

    Och törsten på frihet – vad gör den med oss? I en värld där vi ständigt är uppkopplade – där vi matas med tusen miljarder intryck, inspiration och social interaktion dagligen. I en värld där vi även är allt mer ihopkopplade. Våra nätverk smälter samman och ger oss tillgång till fler och fler människor och nya kontexter.  I en värld där en dejt eller ett ligg bara är ett svep bort. Och så vidare. Världen har krympt. Det är inte längre grannpojken vi främst flörtar med, utan kan lika gärna vara en snygg PT i Barcelona dit vi ska åka på semester, och som vi swajpat fram med Tinder Plus.…

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    Guys: 7 Tinder pictures to avoid

    Let’s talk about single life for a while. What makes us swipe right? Well, these following types of picture will most likely reduce your chances to get a match, according to me. This is what we girls screenshot and send to each other with the OMG emoji. So I just thought I’d be kind and share my tips with you. First of all, Tinder is basically a photo app, where you have to sell yourself in less than a second. The basic rule is of course to have pictures, can we agree on that? Would you approach someone in a bar with a paper bag over your head? An empty…